Your fingers are extra malleable and responsive than toys, which is why Stewart recommends beginning your prostate exploration journey along with your fingers, additionally generally generally known as prostate milking.
Rather than going from zero-to-finger, begin by turning your self on in your typical methods (stroking your penis, pinching your nipples, porn, and many others), she suggests. Then, while you’re prepared, seize some lube and go for it. “Start with a single finger,” she says. “Once inside, curl your finger towards your stomach and you should feel a bulbous, spongy gland.”
All our bodies are completely different, she says, so spend a while testing out various kinds of contact. Experiment with swiping your finger facet to facet like a windshield wiper, urgent it like a doorbell, and circling it spherical and spherical.
Pro-tip: Pre-play, give your self slightly manicure. “You want to make sure your nails are cut and filed down because you don’t want to accidentally scratch your insides.”